What's wrong with the under 35 set? Common courtesies out the window
Normally this blog column focuses on brands, mostly products and services. On occasion I write about individual people as brands. Today, I am compelled to go slightly off-track and write about some of the issues I see with young people (classified here as under 35 years of age).
The issue? A complete lack of common courtesy behavior with their peers and more importantly with older folks like myself.
As part of understanding brands and brand building, one has to also understand human behavior as it impacts consumer decision making. A significant change I see between baby-boomers and their children and grandchildren is how they handle day to day interactions with other people.
These young people who increasingly socialize not in person but through online social media seem to have lost the understanding (and the art form) of how to deal with people one on one. It is so common for a younger person to make commitments (professional and personal) and break them or not live up to them as it is for them to use texting as their main form of communications.
I am astounded how often I personally experience this and how often corporate managers complain about their younger employees. They expect the world to be given to them but seem to also think failing to live up to a responsibility or an agreement as "no big deal". Making an appointment and not showing is not something a baby-boomer would do without (generally) contacting someone in advance to explain why the appointment would be missed. Or, in a extreme case, follow up immediately afterward to explain. Young people very often do neither. They expect their elders to respond to them quickly give them immediate feedback and answers but they see no reason to do the same in return.
For a group facing lives that likely for the first time since World War II will not be better than their parents, they are contributing in my opinion to this situation beyond just the economics of the world. A lack of reliability and dependabilty does not bode well for anyone in a world where jobs are increasingly harder to find and keep. It is no surprise that many employers would now rather hire retired "older" people than younger ones because of this behavioral situation.
I am not sure what has caused such a notable change in behavior but one thing I am sure is this seems to be another example of the decline of society as we know it.
Watching out for you everyday.
Eli




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